By Kate Corbin
“We awaken in others the same attitude of mind we hold toward them.” – Elbert Hubbard
Are you aware that the way people treat you is a direct reflection of how you feel about yourself? It’s true. If you value yourself, others will value you. If you disrespect yourself, others will disrespect you.
According to the Law of Attraction, your emotions offer continuous guidance to tell you whether you’re in the process of attracting what you DO want or what you DON’T want. When you feel good (love, joy, appreciation) your vibration is high and you’re a match to relationships that feel good. When you feel bad (angry, fearful, worthless) your vibration is low and you’re a match to relationships that feel bad.
As you raise your vibration by directing your thoughts to feelings of joy, love, and appreciation, you will feel good about yourself and you will attract wonderfully harmonious relationships. As you raise your vibration, the vibrations of those around you will also improve. Remember, you’re a magnet and you attract people who are a vibrational match to your dominant vibration.
Although you cannot control another person, you can choose which aspects of them to focus on. When you focus on their positive qualities, they will display their positive qualities with you. See them as you want them to be and you will bring out the best in them. With people as with circumstances – Take what you like and leave the rest.
See someone as great and they will be. Try praising rather than judging. Try complimenting rather than criticizing. Since everyone has the potential to manifest any quality and any vibration, simply decide which facet you would like them to express with you – then focus on that.
Here’s the foolproof formula for improving any relationship – from the ogre boss to the critical mother-in-law to the wayward child:
- Find as many things as possible to like and appreciate about them.
- Take your Energy away from complaining about what you don’t like about them and put it squarely on appreciating the aspects you do like about them.
- Keep your vibration high by deciding to feel good no matter what the other person is doing.
Follow these steps and, without fail, all of your relationships with improve.
Kate Corbin is a Law of Attraction Coach and the creator of Gold Star Coaching. Both her coaching practice and her three ebooks – “Manifesting from the Inside Out with Law of Attraction,” “Dining at the Cosmic Cafe, How to Be and Do and Have Whatever You Desire,” and “Think and Grow Thin with the Law of Attraction” – are designed to empower you to truly live the life of your dreams. To contact Coach Kate, download a free copy of her ebook “Magical Musings on the Law of Attraction,” and subscribe to her ezine, visit Gold Star Coaching.