law of attraction
Law of Attraction

The Law of Attraction Explained in Simple Steps

By Marc De Bruin

Okay, some people have asked me to explain the Law of Attraction in the simplest possible terms, so they can understand it more clearly. Cool, that’s easy. Here we go.

Everything around us vibrates; every piece of existence is a form of (electro-magnetic) energy. That is not just me saying so, it is a scientific fact. Go and watch the film “What the Bleep” if you would like to know more about this.

Out of this huge mass of energy matter is formed through specific arrangement, rate of vibration and density of the energy particles in the mass. For instance, arrange the particles in a certain way and within a certain distance, and you may get water. Arranged a different way and with different density, steam emerges. Arrange the particles differently again, and ice is created.

Now for all matter counts that it is made up of the same “stuff”. Everything consists of cells, molecules, atoms and subatomic particles like protons, neutrons and the like; the arrangement, rate of vibration and density makes the difference between you and -let’s say- a tree! That’s why we speak of the quantum soup; this is the “form behind the form”, the basis of whatever we can experience AS form.

Some people refer to the quantum soup as a “field of potentiality” or “waves of probability”; it all boils down to the same thing: There is this substance that lies at the basis of all creation of matter.

How does the Law of Attraction fit in all this? Well, you have to keep what I wrote above in the back of your mind, and then read on.

The Law of Attraction states that what you consistently think about and have emotions about is what is going to come about. The emotions could be good or bad ones; Law of Attraction doesn’t care. If you want something really badly (funny word, but there you go) and feel really good about it, you will most likely get it. On the other hand, if you do not want something at all, and feel bad about the prospect of having it, you will probably get it, too! Law of Attraction is all-inclusive.

Whatever is most prominent in your awareness is most likely the actual thing you are going to attract. The way that this happens is through focused thought and through feeling.

Thought is a form of energy, just like anything else. If you have a thought, you make an impression -literally- on the quantum soup, by which the object of your thought is turning into a reality. Keep that thought up long enough, and the object becomes “physical”, a form. Liken it to an architect. He comes up with the focused thought of a new building. He puts that thought, if he is focused enough on it, onto paper in a drawing. That drawing then will be handed down to the authorities who give the green light, after which the builders will create the actual building. From thought to focused thought and then to realization.

Your feelings will tell you what you are attracting. If you are thinking and feeling good, you will be attracting the good stuff. If you are thinking and feeling bad, you will be attracting the bad stuff; it is as simple as that.

The Law of Attraction operates under these three simple premises:

* You ask. Now that’s easy! Just put out a desire; what is it you want to be, do and have? How are you going to feel once you have it? * It is given. Always! And that is a scientific truth. Whatever thought you impress on the quantum soup, it starts to literally take shape. It cannot do anything else but that. It is law. * Allow and Expect the result to come to you. This is where it can get tricky for many people. I’ll explain.

Our feelings play a major role in the allowing part. In how far do we believe, and do we expect the result of our desire to show up in our lives? If we start off enthusiastically but then lose faith because we don’t get the result soon enough, we’re not allowing. If we want something badly, but believe we don’t deserve that, we are not allowing. If we desire something because we feel our lives will be a mess without it, we are not allowing. See it like this: if you are feel good about what you want, you are drawing it in to your experience for sure. If, on the other hand, you feel bad about still not having what you want, you are pushing your desire away.

Our feelings will ALWAYS tell us what we are attracting. They are our inbuilt GPS.

Allowing is the state where you have the feeling of faith and expectancy about what it is that you want. You trust that you will get it; you don’t worry about it. You are not attached to the outcome.

The state of allowing can be learned. It just takes a bit of effort and consistency, after which it will become part of your overall make-up. That is an exciting event!

When you start to consciously master the rules of creation, your life will become quite different; for the better, I may add. Not only will you create more of the things you want, you will also be better equipped to deal with situations you do not like. You will become an all-rounder in terms of creation, and will have a life of purpose, joy and fulfillment.

It can be done. And I can show you how. You are worth it. Start living your truth Now! And let me cheer for you from the side line!


Marc is a certified life/business coach, master NLP Practitioner and Body Stress Release Practitioner on the Sunshine Coast in Queensland, Australia. Visit Marc’s website at