By Imelda Leahy Pre-paving involves planning out your day, or visualizing a future event in your mind, of how you want things to look and feel. When your attention is very firmly fixed on something that you want, the Universal Law of Attraction must match that with a relevant manifestation. Sometimes we are approaching an event, or season, like Christmas for e.g., with a powerful and unwanted story solidly in place; we may even have been telling this story for decades. Most of us have a story, or two that we can tell about Christmas, or another family-centered event. Some love these family and cultural gatherings and look forward to…